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Best lesbian sex toys

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The toys below work by themselves, but many of them can be used in tandem with strap-on harnesses. The use of these toys take a bit of practise, so we'd recommend that they're used between two women who know each other and each other's bodies intimately. Let the adventures begin!                                   
   

 


Lyla 2

Who is in control?

This is an uber-fun gift to use during lesbian strap-on sex! The Lyla is inserted in the vagina, and then you can hand the remot control to your lover, so they can control the incredibly powerful vibrations.There's nothing you can do about it - they are in control.

 

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How does the Lyla work with a strap-on?

1. The 'giver' (the woman wearing the strap-on) inserts the Lyla 2, and dons a strap-on harness.

2. The giver hands the remote control to the 'receiver'.

3. Now, the two of you start tumbling in the hay.

4. Here's the cool bit: the receiver can control the vibrations of the Lyla. So while the giver is "giving it" to the receiver, the receiver is controlling the giver's orgasmic pleasure.

The great thing is, the Lyla 2 turns the tables on who is in control during sex. The woman wearing the strap-on no longer has complete control: the receiver can also take charge.

 

 

 

 

We Vibe III

A unique lesbian anniversary gift

We call this a 'lesbian anniversary gift' because this one's not for new lez couples! It requires two people who know how to laugh and love together, and don't mind when things go a little askew. It's also a bit of a luxury item because it's expensive - and might not work for your body!

 

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The We-Vibe is a tiny little toy that stimulates both the clit and the g-spot simultaneously. As you no doubt know, many straight women don't have orgasms during sex. The We-Vibe was invented for women to wear while they're having sex. What the designers probably didn't consider is how awesome it is for lesbian sex, because you're BOTH vibing away at the same time, with hands free to do other stuff. It's pretty awesome. You can both pop one in, and then go for gold with your strap-on.

How does the We-Vibe work in lesbian strap-on sex?

How do two lesbians use the We-Vibe? This is going to be confusing at first, but stay with us.

  1. You wear a We-Vibe
  2. She wears a We-Vibe
  3. Still wearing your We-Vibe, you pop on your strap-on harness with a slender dildo attached (we use the Acute).
  4. You enter your lover while she is STILL wearing the we-vibe.
  5. You may have to do some repositioning at first, to get everything fitting nice and flush against your skin.
  6. The 'receiver' should be quite passive the first few times. 'You' should do all the work, and your lover should lie back and totally relax, in the missionary position, as you enter her. The reason for this is the little We-Vibe might pop out if there's much wriggling. You can employ some role-play/dominance and play around with this 'lie back and take it' concept (e.g. tie her up so she can't move).

So basically you wear the We-Vibe under your strap-on, so you are getting some thrills WHILE riding your girl. Meanwhile, she is also vibing away, while you are entering her with your strap-on. The We-Vibe is designed to fit snugly into the vagina, leaving space for a dildo as well. It's an orgasmic free for all!

An expensive toy!

The We-Vibe is an expensive little gadget, and there's a chance it's not going to work for sure and certain on your body. Some women find that it doesn't hit their g-spot, or their clit. Before buying, go to Amazon and read the reviews - not everyone loves it, and it's a lot of money to outlay for something that's not going to work. Also, I'm suggesting buying TWO so that is a double hit to the hip pocket. However, if you have some extra cash, and want to experiment with a unique lovemaking concept, then give it a go! (Even if it doesn't work with your strap-on, you can both use it as a personal vibrator, and the new '3' version is waterproof so you can sit in the bath together and work up some bubbles. It won't be a complete loss!)

 

 

 

Ohmibod Club Vibe

Heat things up on the dance floor

It's party time! If you love taking risks, you will LOVE this vibe. You can wear the Ohmibod Club Vibe under your clothes, and then go out dancing.

The vibe responds to the beat in the music, so every crash of the drums will leave you tingling. Not only that, the vibe comes with a remote microphone, so lovers can 'talk' each other into an orgasm.

 

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How does it work?

The Ohmibod comes with g-string panties. You just slide the vibe inside the panties: then go dancing at a club, where the music activates the vibrations. Or, even better, you can go out to dinner, and hand the remote to your lover. Your lover can then cycle through 5 vibrations - and there's nothing you can do about it. In fact, your lover can be sitting across from you at dinner - or in another room entirely - and be entirely in control.

 

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What's not so great?

This device isn't going to bring you to orgasm in a big hurry: it's more of a subtle pleasure device, to keep you wanting to move your body and dance to the music. Also, if you are not a g-string sort of a girl, you might find the panties uncomfortable. It wouldn't be too hard to use them in other undies, tho...

 

Where can I find them?

You can usually get the OhMiBod club vibe online for less than $100. The panties are one-size-fits-most (they're super stretchy) and the vibe itself is phthalate-free, so it's super-safe to use.  More info, reviews and prices.

 

 

 

 

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