The best no-straps strap-on

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• Do strapless strap-ons actually work? 
• How does the feeldoe work?
• How to use a feeldoe the first time
• Different types of feeldoes
• Feeldoe review summary
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Double dildo: prices and info

Do no straps strap-ons actually work? 

After all, double dildos are hard to use

We've never enjoyed the old "double dildos" (pictured right) - but I doubt there's many lesbian couples out there who haven't thought that they sound like a great idea in theory. We certainly did! We received one as a honeymoon lesbian gift from a well-meaning straight friend, and we were delighted!

The fact is, doublt dildos don't really work.

There's no wiggle room, and neither of you can really push or thrust into the other. The whole point of strap-ons is that you can do some horizontal lambada.

Feeldoe: prices and info.

How is the feeldoe strapless strap-on different?

When we heard of a strap-on without straps, we were dubious at first. But word started getting out that the Feeldoe was pretty exciting stuff for the lesbian community. So we took the plunge.

How does the feeldoe work?

You insert and grip the vibrating 'pony' end in your vagina, while entering your partner with the longer end. It's just as difficult as it sounds, but it's also pretty fun. You really get a sense of skin-on-skin action - there's nothing between you but sweat.

Joque harness: prices and info

You might need a harness

My sex advice for lesbians is that it can be a real effort holding it in place! And despite the previous statement of "skin-on-skin", we tend to use it with the Joque harness (pictured right) because it allows you to get a bit more energetic and creative without "losing your grip". ;)

So why bother, if you're using a harness anyway? Well, with the feeldoe, you're both involved, you're both enjoying the sensation of penetration, while one of you can still take control of the thrusting action. It opens up a few new creative options under the doona!

 
Feeldoe "realdoe" feels like skin: prices and info

The 'stout' version of the feeldoe: info and prices

You can choose to have the toy vibrate or not, as you wish: it comes with a little silver 'bullet' that you pop into the base of the toy, and it makes the entire toy vibrate. (Unfortunately, the vibrations aren't mind-blowing - think of them as a mild added extra.)

How to use a feeldoe for the first time

When you're first trying it out together, go for the missionary position. With a bit of practice, as you thrust into your woman, the pony end pushes on your g-spot, while the little ridges move against your clit. It is possible to come together using the feeldoe. (One of our friends doesn't like the little ridges, btw: I guess it all comes down to body type.)

As you get more adventurous in your sexual positions (and the limit is your imagination), don't be worried if it falls out. This has happened to everyone I know. If it falls out, don't make a big deal of it, just go with the flow. Keep pleasuring her with your hand, while you stick it back in with the other. Or return to fingers, thigh, mouth, body for a while.

Different types of feeldoe strapless strap-ons 

The Feeldoe comes in lots of colors and sizes (check them out online), but we went for the Feeldoe Slim and that was enough thickness for us.

All the feeldoes are high-end silicon products, and the tantus is a respected brand, and not cheap. But if you're looking for a new toy that makes sex incredibly intimate, it's well worth it.

Feeldoe review summary

Although it takes a lot of getting used to, the great thing about the Feeldoe is - eventually - you can use it organically, as the moment dictates. There are no straps, no 'down-time' getting it hooked up - it's can be used as part of the flow in your lovemaking sessions.

We've got friends who LOVE it and friends who HATE it. When we got it, it kept falling out, and that lead to lots of giggles and not much actual sexiness.

Also, one of us found that the clitoris ridges on the shaft were a little rough. I guess it comes down to body type. We also both thought the vibrations in the 'pony' end could be a little stronger.

But as I mentioned earlier, if you really want to just let loose, you can team the feeldoe with the Joque harness. It works perfectly, and can take the pressure off.

For more info, check out the following instructional Feeldoe Video created by Tantus.